Over the last few weeks, I have been writing quite a bit about getting rid of my possessions, going without new purchases, taking breaks from online networking, etc. Since then, I have received several emails asking what I have "against" technology, arguing the importance of gadgets, social knowledge about TV shows or new music, and the like.
I have nothing against technology. Really. My focus is on using these new tools that are available to make my life better instead of just busier. As I see it, the more "connected" we all become, via Twitter, via Facebook, via a hundred other mediums, the less enjoyment I personally seem to get out of it. What was supposed to be fun becomes just another "have-to." Remembering to respond to a comment or message on Online Network #1 becomes part of my to-do list for that day. Keeping up with a list of blogs, out of duty instead of out of enjoyment takes time away from something else, and I have come to resent this creeping obligation.
I know that I am not the only one, as there have been dozens of books out recently about the effects that multi-tasking, constant web-surfing, and perpetual connectivity have on our brains, our moods and our relationships. For all of this, I still view these tools as a positive thing, so long as they are used appropriately.
And this is what I am struggling with. What are the limits? What are the best ways to balance the benefits of new connectivity tools with the need for direct, authentic and personal interaction? Does "liking" someone's facebook status really bring me closer to that person? Is it an acceptable substitute for a phone call or a face-to-face conversation?
The more I think about these questions, the more I try to minimize, and the more committed I become to doing so. I try to minimize my possessions in order to spent my money on experiences, investments and the people I care about. I try to minimize my time spent online so that I can have more time offline. I try to call my customers and see them in person, rather than just exchanging long email chains. The time I do spend online is mindful, and I want to connect with friends instead of just jumping all over the place.
I am still struggling to find a perfect resolution for all of this, but I do think that I am getting closer, and I like the direction that I am heading.
"He did each single thing as if he did nothing else."
- Charles Dickens
Multi-tasking is vastly over-rated. By focusing on one thing at a time, we can give that person, task or responsibility the attention and value that it/they deserve. The only way to do this is by eliminating distractions. Lately, I have been doing so. I keep only one tab open online. I changed the settings on my instant messenger services so that they do not log me in automatically. For now, I have deactivated Facebook. I consider that temporary, as it has become one of the best ways to keep in touch with friends. For now though, I needed a break.
By continuing to minimize my time and commitments online and in the real world, I can focus more effectively on what I do care about. My work is more productive. I write more. I read more. I box and run more. I brew beer. I make soap. When I talk to my family, I only talk to my family.
In response to my comment expressing the difficulties I was experiencing in making soap from scratch, my friend offered the following:
"Yeah, its too bad that society hasn't progressed to the point where such products are offered in readily available portions at affordable costs. Oh wait..."
He has a point. But I think there are plenty of reasons to learn about and practice making soap from raw materials. They are as follows:
Competence - learning how something is made is always worthwhile, especially if you can then duplicate this task. You are never worse off for the knowledge.
Quality - Unless you are spending top-dollar, most soap that you buy is made from the cheapest of materials. Much like brewing your own beer, making your own soap allows you to use the top quality materials, with the cost savings associated with doing the work for yourself. For less money per unit than your average bar of Dial soap, you can have top-level artisan soap.
Fun - I love projects, and this is a good one. Complicated and dangerous enough to be fully engaging, long enough to require focus over extended periods of time, and you get a usable and valuable product out of your efforts. This is fun to me.
First, a big, giant warning. Making soap from scratch involves working with chemicals that are highly dangerous. Sodium Hydroxide (Lye) will burn the living shit out of your skin, and god forbid that it gets in your eyes. Protective equipment, such as heavy-duty gloves and goggles are a must. Strict attention should be paid when handling raw lye. Even when being careful, it is possible for lye to splash up, which would do you serious damage. This Rugged Life is in no way responsible for your burned body if you injure yourself while making soap. If you have not seen "Fight Club," or even if you have, it is recommended that you watch this scene from 0:30 - 3:00. This IS what can happen to any part of your skin that the lye touches. ALWAYS keep a jug of vinegar nearby to neutralize any burns.
Right then. Despite the need for care, soap-making is common, and should be fine so long as you use proper caution.
While part of the fun of making anything is customizing it to your own standards, I would recommend using a already-perfected recipe for your first few goes. These are readily available online, including this one from The Simple Dollar, which includes lot of good ingredients like coconut oil and oatmeal.
Soap is basically made up of oil(s) and sodium hydroxide. Sodium Hydroxide is also used to make methamphetamines, so it can be difficult to find. I purchased mine from Bramble Berry. They will ask you to sign and email back a Hazardous Material form, which clears them from lawsuits if you burn the shit out of yourself.
Different recipes will include different types of oils and fats, but olive oil is commonly used, and a soap with mostly olive oil will make a Castile soap, which is fairly soft. Lard, Coconut Oil and other fats can be added, or used as substitutes.
Two basic mixtures will be created, one including all of the oils and fat, and the other consists of the lye and a liquid, such as water or milk. Once both mixtures have reached the appropriate temperature, the lye mix is added to the oil mix. The order of this is important. Carefully monitor the temperatures of each. My failure to do so made my life much harder than it needed to be.
I made a few mistakes on this batch, such as allowing my oils to get far too hot, and allowing my lye to get too cool. Invest in a second thermometer to avoid a similar problem.
Lye/Milk Combination - the lye took frozen milk to over 140 degrees in seconds
I got creative with my soap molds, using a bunch of strangely-shaped items that I found at the Salvation Army store. The problem was that I did not line the bottoms with plastic wrap or aluminum foil. My failure to do so made it nearly impossible to get the hardening soap out of the molds, and I ended up wasting a lot of precious materials because of it. The soap that was not wasted came out pretty...rough-looking. Its not the cool-looking ovals and rectangles that I was hoping for, but it should be functional.
Once the lye and oils have been mixed, you have a lot of stirring to do. Hours, actually. Unless you invest in a stick blender, which will cut the time to a half hour, or far less.
Once you have removed the soap from the molds, it must be left for 3-4 weeks before using. This allows the lye to continue mixing with the oils, settle down, and become something that you can actually use on your body. You can lay plastic wrap over the bars, and then put a blanket or towel over it to let it cool down slowly.
Ugly soap
Be careful during cleanup. While the mixture is now "soap," the lye is still wrestling around in the ingredients. While it will no longer cause chemical burns, it can still irritate your skin, and would do worse to your eyes. You should keep your gloves on while cleaning up your mess to be on the safe side. Even with the gloves, some of the soap got onto my forearms, and the skin reddened up fairly quickly.
Safety, I has it
That's it for this volume of the Tyler Durden Chronicles. The next segment will talk about the finished product, some fun information about soap, and possibly more of my fuck-ups. Cheers.
About 5 hours into the Cactus to Clouds adventure, probably the most difficult single day of work in my life. I was accompanied by my comrade, Kalvin, and the "hike" would span 22 miles, 14 hours, and well over 12,000 feet of elevation change. Here I am looking out over the desert floor where we started the day at 3:00 A.M.
